saya seorang anak perempuan. Saya dididik ayah saya untuk selalu bekerja keras dan kamu boleh menikmati hasil kerja kerasmu, tapi ibu mengajarkan agar selalu bisa menabung walau tidak seberapa setiap bulannya.
saya sekarang menjadi seorang istri. Yang dididik keluarga agar tidak menjadi “perampok” bagi suami mengatasnamakan nafkah untuk “istri” dan “anak-anak”
Dan semoga suami di luar sana, memberikan nafkah dan kasih sayang yang pantas bagi istri-istri pekerja, jangan mentang-mentang istri bekerja anda tidak memberikan nafkah yang semestinya. Karena mengandalkan istri punya gaji sendiri.
Deeply hurt 😢
Seseorang yg kurang baik dulunya, bisa ga berubah total memperbaiki hidupnya ?
Who knows ? Cuma Allah dan dia yang tau. Beliau bener2 bisa berubah jika niat berubah karena takut sama Allah, and maybe ada sesuatu atau seseorang yg di hormati sebagai alasan dia utk berubah.
Seseorang bisa berubah karena takut kehilangan, takut merasakan sakit yang sama over and over again.
Tapi sampe kapan kamu bisa berharap dia bisa berubah ?
Give him chance, give him time and watch. If he not worth to wait for, so let him go it’s better for both of u.
Trus gimana perasaan sesorang yang sudah terlanjur terluka karna kelakuan kurang baik itu ?
Itu hatimu, terserah kamu. Kamu mau maafin dia, kasih kesempatan, dan selalu berdoa semoga sakit ini digantikan dgn sesuatu yg jauh lebih baik lagi. Digantikan dgn yg lain atau dia berubah menjadi jauh lebih baik. But that’s not easy, kamu harus bisa melawan rasa takut di dalam hatimu sendiri.
Ikhtiar kita ya bi
InshaAllah sembuh abii
Amiiiin at Mahkota Medical Centre (MMC) – Read on Path.
Kalau udh Allah yang cemburu, manusia bisa apa 😪
Dear married couple, remember Sayyiduna Ali and Sayyidah Fatimah. What was the condition of their home? They lived a life of utmost simplicity. They were the definitions of sacrifice. She is the queen of paradise and he is the Lion of Allah, yet their home contained very little food, very little provision. They had little wealth and did not possess much of the dunya. They spent days feeling hungry. They spent days struggling. They spent days striving. There was no glamorous kitchen. There was no expensive sofas and costly furniture. There was only bowing, prostrating, supplications, tears and pure love.
Sayyiduna Ali worked tirelessly through-out the day to earn his own wealth. Sayyidah Fatimah would raise the children, she would grind grain and she’d bake bread. Things would get so difficult for them, yet their love only continued. They’d become extremely tired due to their struggles, yet they only increased in contentment. What is our condition? If our fridges are empty of juice, drink and food, we begin to fight. If our cupboards don’t have enough biscuits and cereals, we get upset. If breakfast, lunch and dinner is not extraordinary, we bicker. Our women all call themselves queen and want the world. Guess what? She IS the queen and she only wanted the akhirah. Our men think they are brave and deserve the best of lives. Guess what? He IS the Lion of Allah, yet he never once complained of the conditions. We have everything yet how happy are we? What is the state of our homes and how do we raise our children? They had very little of the world and they are the leaders of paradise. Look at how they were tested, yet they still raised the likes of Sayyiduna Hasan and Hussain. رضي الله عنهم
You had sex before marriage? You had relationship after relationship? You were addicted to drugs? You drank? you smoked? you clubbed? you had boyfriends? you had girlfriends? you chilled? The world has shattered you?
Your mistakes are NOT greater then His mercy. Your sin is not greater than Allah’s forgiveness. Your shortcomings are not more encompassing than His gentleness. Your flaws are uncomparable to His Perfection. Your falling is not greater than His raising. An entire life of bad can be completely wiped away through a sincere heart, a humble soul and a teary eye.
